Tuesday, 31 March 2015




POSITIVE BELIEVING

Work hard for what you want because it won't come to you without a fight. You have to be strong and courageous and know that you can do anything you put your mind to. If somebody puts you down or criticizes you, just keep on believing in yourself and turn it into something positive. Failure will never overtake you if your determination to succeed is strong enough.

By Colletor


Before

first seek to understand than to be understood.
before you act, listen
before you react, think
before you spend, earn
before you criticize, wait
before you pray, forgive
before you quit, try.Good night friends

Monday, 30 March 2015

RESPECT

In an organisation, there are different positions and very many different people who take these positions. In order for us to work together we have to respect one another. There is a hierachy of authority and I believe it should not mattter whether it is a woman or a younger person who you are reporting to. This is discrimination of the highest order and I don't think there will be smooth running of events. This happenned to me today and I was very disappointed. I am not very good at arguing and so I had to walk away. What do you do when somebody disrespects because of your age and gender? 

Saturday, 28 March 2015

My future husband

They, the other men, have been so curious.Arrogantly confident of winning a woman, they tasted defeat in my courtyard and were never let in!I admit some of them were kingly in appearance with the radiance of diamond and the sweetness of apple. They stood before me with royal gait holding baskets of inducements.But my heart was chained to you,the shackles they couldn’t break the unseen shackles that crisscross over my mind, my body, my thoughts, my soul:soft like wool, blowing gently like breeze, thrilling me with fascination for you;thorny for those who dare intrude.

Friday, 27 March 2015

Think about it....

THERE IS NOTHING GOOD THAT DOES NOT GROW IN THE SOILS OF LOVE

........ C'est la Vie

Sometimes I think..... as much as we/ I may worry so much about tomorrow and plan for it, it is still best that I dont know about it. I mean, if I knew all about my tomorrow, my future, life wouldnt really be exciting. I like to hope for something, as much as I hate the suspense, I still find joy in waiting and striving for what I want.

Life has many beautiful sights, it all depends on the lens from which you view it from. If your lens is dirty, life will be a mess, if it is clean...well, life can be all that you make it.

I feel encouraged knowing that a situation does not last forever, everything has a beginning and an end (except God, ofcourse...). I look back at my life, certain situations that drained me in the past, and I cant believe it is done. That chapter is over. Oh, wow....what an encouragement to know even what I may be currently going through will as well pass away.

Am happy, am content, am looking forward for a brighter and glamorous tomorrow.
      In transit...this is how life feels like to some where it seems like you are in space watching yourself and you seem to not be in control over what that is happening. The desire to be in control as a double edged sword as it is a blessing where one is constantly seeking to be in control which makes one more aware of their actions. On the other hand life is hectic when you are trying to control matters that are beyond your control. It is a slow painful process of accepting that once in a while we do not have to drive the life bus and enjoy the journey with the unexplainable belief that everything happens for a reason.In transit is a state I am slowly accepting in my life.

Tuesday, 24 March 2015

Girl, you deserve a call

Freaks should remain in the circus, not in your life. Don't be with someone who doesn't make time for you, or at the very minimum call you.

If he is not calling you,  it's not because he is busy, it's because you're not on his mind. When he tells you he's busy, it's not a reflection of his schedule; it's a reflection of YOUR spot on his schedule. Busy is another word for lame a**.  And that might as well be his middle name too. Make space for the glorious things you deserve. And you deserve a freaking call.


BAN OF KQ FLIGHTS TO TANZANIA A SIGN OF DIPLOMATIC ROW

The KQ saga started when the Ministry of Tourism of Kenya had barred Tanzanian registered vehicles from accessing JKIA while the Tanzania Civil Aviation Authority responded by reduced the frequency of Kenya Airways flights operating between Kenya and Tanzanian airports. The effect of reduction of Kenya Airways (KQ) flight from 42 to 14 every week was a clear indication that member states of the East African Community (EAC) have deep-rooted differences despite constant pledges of co-operation. When they meet, they shake hands and smile, but inside them they have deep-rooted animosity. To resolve the KQ issue, president (Kikwete and Uhuru) met on Saturday and struck the deal in the Namibian capital Windhoek. The meeting was held under a very cordial atmosphere, with the two Heads of State emphasizing the need to continue to discuss openly issues affecting the brotherly and long-standing bilateral relationship that exists between Tanzania and Kenya. Tanzanians knew they will loose less when it comes to the worst, while Kenya was not thinking a head before they ambushed Tanzanians with demands. There are diplomatic processes to handle such cases and these two nations need to learn how to co-exist with one another.

By Colletor Adoyo

Saturday, 21 March 2015

THE COST OF WAR IN SOUTH SUDAN

The conflict in South Sudan since December 2013 has devastated the lives of majority of South Sudan’s people. It has killed tens of thousands, placed nearly a third of the population at risk of famine and ravaged key parts of the country. The conflict has been brutal killings, rape, forced recruitment of children, mass displacement and the destruction of livelihoods. It has left open wounds that will take decades to heal. 

No monetary figure or economic projection can quantify the full human cost of the conflict in South Sudan. There can be no price tag on the suffering of South Sudan’s people from displacement, famine and death. But it is possible to assess the direct economic costs by estimating the loss of productive assets and capital, the reduction in economic activity, and the domestic diversion from productive to non-productive activities. The costs are equally severe for neighbouring countries and the international community at large including, in this case, the likely decline in formal trade flows with South Sudan’s neighbours, and the cost of providing humanitarian aid and UN peacekeepers for years to come.

Depending on the intensity of the conflict, the costs for South Sudan could reach a staggering range of between US$22 billion and $28 billion over the next five years. But if action is taken now to ensure peace is achieved in 2015 (rather than 2020), the international community, particularly Western donors, could save about US$30 billion by reducing expenditure on peacekeeping and humanitarian assistance. This scenario would also mean that the neighbouring economies of Ethiopia, Kenya, Sudan, Tanzania and Uganda could collectively save US$53 billion.

The full effects of conflict, such as environmental degradation, the break-down of social cohesion and the psycho-social trauma generated by sexual violence and child exploitation, are difficult to capture in their entirety in an economic cost benefit analysis. South Sudan can ill-afford the economic costs of war, but after decades fighting for independence from its northern neighbour, it is even less equipped to bear the heavy social costs of another generation growing up in a violently divided society. The longer the violence continues, the further it spreads, and the more insidious it becomes, the more difficult the task will be for South Sudan to undergo the kind of social, psychological and economic transformation needed to achieve lasting peace. An inclusive approach to peace negotiations should be implemented so that all South Sudanese people have a stake in their nation’s future.

By Colletor Adoyo

Friday, 20 March 2015

culture week

How was culture week to you boring, amazing, there there or fantastic.give you opinion.

IN MY WORLD OF TWO

We are stronger together
In the world of two....
illness becomes wellness
In the world of two....
there are no masks, nothing to hide;
Companionship, communication makes
A world of two.....

In my world of two,
there are tulip flowers with royal blue petals deeply anchored in roots of commitment,
sunflowers with big yellow petals radiating rivers of joy in our hearts
It is not a matter of trial and error but loyalty and respect
It is in my world of two....

We appreciate and compliment,
In my world of two....
white lilies of honesty raising a bright yellow stem voicing security
it is freedom, it is contentment, it is serendipity in its natural sense.
It is in my world of two.... 




Stolen Moments are not life
  when you spend your day thinking and hoping for someone to change you are wasting your life,. there are those people who will always give you mixed signals where for a moment they want to be with you and the next it is like you never existed. The mixed signals give you hope and depression at the same time and we end up not enjoying everyday because we are constantly wondering if we will be noticed or ignored today. This to me is stolen moments which are not life as we should be with those people who are not afraid to tell us how they feel and show us what we mean to them

Wednesday, 18 March 2015

So much for going back to the gym. I can't believe how much pain I am in. One week later I still feel like a bag of maize was placed on me. Everyday I move a different muscle. Well, they say NO PAIN NO GAIN!!! I know the end result is great, but the journey is very trying.

If you cut in queue, I WILL cut you!!

I hate queues, a lot. If I can,  I will avoid queueing. And from experience, I know you can if you just plan your time well and avoid rush times. 

Then there are days like today, when I desperately need a bottle of cold water, but the queue at the school cafeteria goes on to Timbuktu. So I stand in queue agirated by how slow the cashier is, but I'm too thirsty to leave the queue, and good enough there's only 3 people ahead now. Just then this woman walks in and goes straight at the front and orders a bottle of coke. The cashier starts to enter the order. At this point my head is spinning in anger and frustration. Who in God's name are you?  So I call her out,  "Excuse me! We are in a queue if you haven't noticed" 
"Sorry" she says.
I've never been one to be bullied. So that right there was my tiping point. A little heated exchange follows and she storms out of the cafeteria, leaving the cashier with her money and to be honest, it felt so good to watch her embarrassed 'important' self leave. If I didn't do anything else, that moment there was enough to justify my existence for today.

If you cut queues,  you could as well put a poster on your forehead saying "I'm selfish, stupid and arrogant" . and don't even tell me you're in a rush, who isn't?  I'm from the coast and there's this phrase we use ,"if you were in such a hurry you should have come yesterday" a bit silly but point is,  plan your time well.

Monday, 16 March 2015




VISION (THE JUICE OF LIFE)
Most people have an interest in their destinies, but they have no passion or drive to fulfill them. They don't really believe the dreams God has put in their hearts. If they do believe them, they don't do the things that will take them in the direction of fulfilling them. Yet that is what separates the people who make an impact in the world and those who just exist on the planet. Have you discovered what your vision is? Finding something you can put your whole self into will fill your life with new hope and purpose. It will give you a reason for living and be your passion. It wakes you up in the morning and it keeps you going when tired. It is an antidote to depression. It causes you to have joy in the midst of great opposition because you know that what God has given you to accomplish cannot be stopped by anyone.
When you discover your vision, it will give you energy and passion. The vision in your heart is the spark that will make life work because you must pursue your dream with all your enthusiasm and strength, or it will not happen. If you set your hands to do something, there will inevitably be resistance, opposition, and difficulties. Therefore, you have to apply pressure in order to fulfill your dream. You must put your whole might behind it. Hard work and diligence are essential ingredients to success; therefore, you need an internal motivation to see the external manifestation of your dream. That internal motivation is vision. Vision will influence the way you conduct your entire life, such as what you spend your time and money on and what your priorities are. Without vision, we have no values to guide our living. Life has no sense of direction. Activity has no meaning. Time has no purpose. Resources have no application. Vision is the juice of life. It is the prerequisite for passion and the source of persistence. When you have vision, you know how to stay in the race and complete it.

By Colletor Adoyo